Over the past couple of years of blogging and connecting with couples I have come to realize that speaking the Love Language of Physical Touch can be quite hard! Maybe it was never spoken to them or it makes them feel awkward to speak the language. The thing is if your partners Love Language is Physical Touch and you choose not to speak it you are leaving their love tank empty. And honestly we NEVER want to do that!
Just like with any foreign language we must practice to get better and feel more comfortable. We should not force ourselves to think we have to do a huge amount of Physical Touch RIGHT NOW or our mate will not feel loved. That may only cause more anxiety and actually make us draw further away. But instead it is our job to learn how to speak their Love Language. I put together a 10 day challenge of small actions of Physical Touch to help with this issue.
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Make sure you do the one act each day. Over time it will become easier. At first it may feel a little odd and even silly. However, I know that your spouse will feel so loved! As the actions become easier to do you will start finding yourself doing them more often. This will for sure start filling your mates love tank. Take the initiative to make changes, to learn this foreign language. It will make all the difference in your marriage!
Just like with any foreign language we must practice to get better and feel more comfortable. We should not force ourselves to think we have to do a huge amount of Physical Touch RIGHT NOW or our mate will not feel loved. That may only cause more anxiety and actually make us draw further away. But instead it is our job to learn how to speak their Love Language. I put together a 10 day challenge of small actions of Physical Touch to help with this issue.
Make sure you do the one act each day. Over time it will become easier. At first it may feel a little odd and even silly. However, I know that your spouse will feel so loved! As the actions become easier to do you will start finding yourself doing them more often. This will for sure start filling your mates love tank. Take the initiative to make changes, to learn this foreign language. It will make all the difference in your marriage!